When Will New York Finally Get No-Fault Divorce?

For over 40 years lawmakers, lawyers, women’s right advocates and others in New York State have debated whether New York, like virtually all other 49 states in the Union, should have no-fault divorce.

No-fault divorce has been defined as “a divorce in which it doesn’t matter who did what to whom that caused the marriage to break down; all that matters is that there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation.”

That sounds reasonable enough and theoretically removes much of the animus that permeates many divorce cases that come into our matrimonial and family law practice.  On the surface, that explains why almost every state has adopted no-fault legislation.  But, let’s remember, even with no-fault divorce, all the other sticking points remain to be hammered out between the parties, such as equitable distribution, child support, custody and visitation and alimony.

In general terms, in New York the grounds for divorce are “cruel and inhuman” treatment; adultery; abandonment for one year, having spent at least three years in prison; or having lived pursuant to a separation agreement for one year.  Most of these grounds for divorce have a highly charged inherent emotional component.  That is one of the reasons our firm likes to offer mediation and collaborative law as an alternative to a nasty divorce trial.

A recent study by the University of Pennsylvania revealed a drop in domestic violence of 33% in no-fault divorces – a powerful statistic indeed.  But, unfortunately, that’s not the end of the debate.  The influential New York State office of the National Organization for Women has staunchly opposed legislation for no-fault divorce under the rubric that women still in large earn less than men, and that men would unfairly benefit from no-fault divorces.

In its recent report, the Matrimonial Commission established by the Chief Judge of New York State found that New York’s fault-based divorce system has a direct impact on the manner in which, and the speed with which, matrimonial matters proceed.   Substantial evidence, derived from the public hearings held by the Commission and the professional experience of the Commission members, lead the Commission to conclude that fault allegations and fault trials add significantly to the cost, delay, and trauma of matrimonial litigation and are, in many cases, used by litigants to achieve a tactical advantage in matrimonial litigation.  The Commission urged the New York State Legislature to enact an amendment to the Domestic Relations Law providing for no-fault divorce.

The Matrimonial Commission published its findings in early 2006, and so far the Legislature has not acted to change the divorce laws here in New York.  If the Legislature does pass a new law, I will certainly write something about it.  So check the blog regularly for news and analysis on this and other topics of interest. 

Man Gives New Meaning to “Moving On” After Divorce

A man from Australia is attempting to auction off his life on eBay, saying that he just wants to “move on” after his eight-year marriage ended in divorce.

According to British newspaper, The Guardian, 44-year-old Ian Usher from Perth, Australia, decided that he would auction off everything in his life, including his car, home, jet ski, and friends, after the collapse of his marriage.

Usher said that the process was going much better than he’d expected. He said, “My life’s on a much more even keel now. I’m ready to move on.”

According to the newspaper, after the auction began on June 22, offers reached at least $1.7 million.

Usher quipped that even if the auction is unsuccessful, he will always be known as “the man who couldn’t sell his life on eBay.”

Wife of Missing Man Files for Divorce

The wife of a man from SeaTac, Washington, who disappeared on February 13th has filed for divorce, according to the records of the King County Superior Court.

Since he called home from work the day before Valentine’s Day, no one has heard from 28-year-old Nicholas Francisco.  Five days later, his 1992 Toyota Paseo was found abandoned at a condominium complex by police.  Initially, his wife feared that he may have been killed or kidnapped, but sheriff’s detectives found no evidence of foul play, and no trace of him has been discovered since.

On May 28th, nearly four months after his disappearance, 28-year-old Christine Francisco filed for divorce in Superior Court. The couple has a four-year-old daughter, a two-year-old son, and an unborn child.

In a custody request for her children, the petition filed by Christine Francisco claims “willful abandonment that continues for a period of time,” in addition to a “history of acts of domestic violence . . . or an assault or sexual assault” which resulted in her sustaining bodily harm or caused or to fear being harmed.

 

Original Source:  seattlepi.com, June 17, 2008

Military Divorces on the Rise

With the ongoing war in Iraq in its sixth year, and many soldiers from the U.S. military on their third or fourth combat tours, the divorce rate among military personnel is soaring.

According to David Smith of The Guardian, last year, there were approximately 8,700 divorces that involved American soldiers, in comparison to 2001 when there were an estimated 5,500.

According to James Pritchard, a chaplain at Loyalty Base in east Baghdad, since the beginning of the year, he had 38 soldiers referred to him to discuss marital issues. He estimated that 10 of them told him that they had discovered or found evidence that their spouse was leaving them or seeing another person.


Pritchard said that marital problems are a big issue, particularly among younger soldiers who have wed a person they have not known long.  He notes that suddenly spouses States side find that they have extra income, and the “spouse at home” lifestyle is convenient for extra-marital affairs.  Pritchard says that there have even been instances of soldiers going home to find the house empty with the spouse and kids gone.

 

Original Source:  PressTV, June 2, 2008