A New Year, A New You?
I am not someone who subscribes to the idea of New Year’s resolutions. How many people have promised to lose weight, take better care of themselves, eat better, and promise to be nicer to . . .? But when it comes to people going through a divorce, taking stock in the beginning of the year makes sense. Spend some time writing down things you’d like to accomplish, and create a plan that will work for you and your circumstances.
Always keep in mind these should be realistic goals, not difficult to reach dreams. Some examples might include:
· If you didn’t work hard enough to establish a working dialogue with your former spouse, a new year can act as a starting point to try something new. Create a working partnership with regard to child-rearing and other parental issues.
· Join a group of people who share your interests
· Reconnect with old friends
· Set aside time for you to be with your kids
· Be good to yourself
None of these things require massive infusions of cash, but a little planning, some workable goals, and a good attitude looking forward can help make 2009 a better year that 2008. So Happy New Year to everyone!
